Dancing with Change

The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance. ~ Alan Watts

Flickr recently changed their format, allowing users to have 1 terabyte of storage space free for their media. A lot of people flipped out. Some had the hubris to make a critical analyses. I went, “Yay!” One terabyte is a lot of pixels, and I didn’t have to sell my soul for storage. I changed my personal account from Pro to free and got a prorated refund in less than 24 hours. Yahoo has to make money. Better off advertisers than me.

Change happens. It’s part of living. Either I can spend my energy squawking about it or I can dance along. I choose to dance. Today I am dancing in this great set of silks from Solange Cerveau. With her characteristic intricate textures and perfect system pieces and absolute sex appeal, the silks give me the look of a gorgeous dancer. (Because if I am going to dance, I am going to do it looking good!) How does Solange manage to pack so much into such a small set of pixels?

With the advent of mesh in SL (another change some people have problems with), we are seeing hybrid avatars, made of the system avatar and mesh enhancements. Heads, boobs, even butts have come out. And of course, we have hands and feet. The queen of this is, of course, Siddean Munro, who recently adopted the clever open-source texturing used on mesh boobs by allowing creators to develop “appliers” for her hands and feet for both skin and nails. I used a set of her “Elegant” hands to hold zills for dancing, just to make the dancing more rhythmic and musical.

Sachi Vixen, who has survived just about every change the grid has tried to throw at her has created a set of appliers for Slink’s hands and feet like other creators as well as gloves and now the lovely foot jewels you see on my opening photo. Made of mesh, they come with a color changing HUD that allows you to choose from six different metal colors. I looked on MP and found these terrific french nail colors in an applier from Nicole Twigvald and click, click and my manicure and pedicure were complete.

Sachi’s appliers would not work right if I weren’t wearing her skin as well. The transition from hands and feet to the rest of the body is truly seamless. I had to make no adjustments once I had put the appliers on. And this skin is gorgeous. With well-developed features from top to bottom (not just the pretty face we see on some skins), Sachi’s latest skins have been a gorgeous addition to the grid and perfect for wearing with revealing silks.

Truth Hawks is another creator on the grid who has rolled with the punches. When mesh came out, he converted his hair factories from sculpty to mesh. His latest mesh work is gorgeous—he gets better every day. Recently he chose to redo his color selections and in so doing, forgo the metaphorical names for simple colors and numbers. Most of us embraced the change. Change happens. Dance along.

Life is like dancing. If we have a big floor, many people will dance. Some will get angry when the rhythm changes. But life is changing all the time. ~ Miguel Angel Ruiz

Hair: TRUTH HAIR Lotus – Reds04 by Truth Hawks for >TRUTH< *

Skin: AE Skins – Carolyn T3 Bare by Sachi Vixen for Adam n Eve *

Eyes: IKON Lucid Eyes – Eucalyptus (ML) by Ikon Innovia for IKON *

Silks: GREEN/MOSS Innocence by Solange Cerveau for Solange! *

Hands: Slink Mesh Hands (av) Elegant by Siddean Munro for Slink

Feet: Slink Mesh Feet (Av) Flat by Siddean Munro for Slink

Skin appliers: by Sachi Vixen for Adam n Eve *

Nail applier: Orc Inc. : Slink Avatar Enhancement Hand and Toe Nails by Nicole Twigvald for Orc Inc.

Zills: Finger Cymbals by Anthonys Republic for Sculpty Republic

Foot jewels: Adam n Eve Foot Jewel Emerald by Sachi Vixen for Adam n Eve *

Poses by Rogan Diesel for DieselWorks Animations *

Delight

She was a Phantom of delight
When first she gleamed upon my sight;
A lovely Apparition, sent
To be a moment’s ornament;
Her eyes as stars of Twilight fair;
Like Twilight’s, too, her dusky hair;
But all things else about her drawn
From May-time and the cheerful Dawn;
A dancing Shape, an Image gay,
To haunt, to startle, and way-lay.

~ William Wordsworth

When I saw this gown from Ariadna Garrigus, I knew I wanted to show a contemporary look with a classical poem. This gorgeous sequined dress from Ariadna is a delight with a beautiful mesh shape and a sexy glittering texture. Check out the sexy criss-cross back, which will make you look great coming and going. Adorned with deco jewelry from Maxi Gossamer and new shoes from Babette Ultsch, this look is almost perfect.

Circe Ishtari creates the beautiful that is skin deep. This is her latest skin which is not made up and is a perfect base skin for eyeliner from Tricky Boucher and lipstick from Mocksoup Graves. I love being able to combine makeups like I can in RL, dipping into my cosmetic bag for just the right berry for a pretty pucker. Kavar Cleanslate has come out with a few new hairs, including this gorgeous side-swept style, dusky and elegant for a twilight look.

 

 

A perfect Woman, nobly planned,
To warn, to comfort, and command;
And yet a Spirit still, and bright
With something of angelic light.

Hair: Exile::Hearts Don’t Breakeven by Kavar Cleanslate for ::Exile:: *

Skin: Tokyo.Girl Skin Hye Sue SK . Shade A by Circe Ishtari for Tokyo Girl *

Makeup: [mock] Cosmetics Blackberry Lip Gel (Lipcolor only)  by Mocksoup Graves for [mock cosmetics] and -Belleza- Eyeliner 1 by Tricky Boucher for-Belleza- *

Eyes: IKON Lucid Eyes – Coffee (ML) by Ikon Innovia for IKON *

Dress: ***Armony Igs70 Gown Carressa Silver by Ariadna Garrigus for Armony *

Jewelry: MG – Necklace, Bangles, and Earrings – Copacetic Tallulah by Maxi Gossamer for Maxi Gossamer *

Nails: [PM]Pixel Mode – Diamond Edt. Mesh Nails : Regular by Tya Fallingbridge for Pixel Mode *

Sandals:  *KL* Sandal Yvy Color Set01by Babette Ultsch for Kittie’s Lair *

Poses by Rogan Diesel for DieselWorks Animations *

Narcissus

by Tutsy Navarathna

“Narcissus so himself himself forsook,
And died to kiss his shadow in the brook.” ~ William Shakespeare

The story of Narcissus from Greek mythology is the core word of the illness of narcissism, one where a person can only think of themselves and regard themselves as perfect. In the Ovid’s version of the story, Narcissus rejects the love of the mountain nymph, Echo, and Nemesis, the goddess of revenge decides to punish him. So she lures him to a pool where he saw his own reflection. He falls in love with the one he sees, not realizing at first it is himself.

Tutsy Navarathna took a clever turn with this tale for his latest machinima. An entry in the latest University of Western Australia Machinima Challenge, his film addresses the theme of “Reflections.” Tutsy literally brought a reflection to bear in this film.

I loved the machinima, especially the one that was narrated in French by Tutsy himself and has English subtitles. (See above.) Tutsy Navarathna hails from Paris but currently makes his home in India. Some of his voiceovers come from friends in India. He also involved many friends in the production of the film, including Iono Allen and Alpha Auer. That is what makes this machinima and the competition itself so exciting—the collaboration of artists from all over the planet.

In watching the film, I thought about our own gaze at our avatar, the pride and “love” we have for this figure we have made. How many of us cling to our “selves,” carefully adorning it, protecting our “image” and self. It’s a film that echoes with many layers as we watch, being more than just a literal “reflection” but also a reflection on our selves.

Being the person who does a fashion blog, I asked Tutsy about the fashions he used to make Narcissus, of course. And Tutsy agreed to be the model for this blog. So you get the machinima AND a backstage look at the star.

Tutsy made his own shape and on this long lean shape he piled layers and layers of tattoos and piercings to make his Narcissus contemporary and attractive. In the machinima, his Narcissus is brooding and solitary and almost singularly beautiful. And narcissistic.

You can read more about the competition and the latest entries at the UWA in SL blog here and see more of Tutsy’s work here, including his last three winning entries for their competitions.

“Narcissus does not fall in love with his reflection because it is beautiful, but because it is his. If it were his beauty that enthralled him, he would be set free in a few years by its fading.” ~ W.H. Auden

Hair: Burley Sofian Platinum by Bella Earst for Burley

Skin: Angelicus Raphael+ fallen gods+ blessed by Alia Baroque for Fallen Gods

Makeup: VYC Eyeliner by iantonio Viper for VyC and Fruk manly lip gloss by Chucky Hollak for Fruk

Eyes: Blue grey eyes gaslight Emporium by Vincente Shepherd for Gaslights Emporium

Collar: Tableau vivant minos collar by M4ri1yn Magic for Tableau Vivant

Tattoo: Vestigium- cyber tattoo by Lu Scorpio for Vestigium

Ear: Ear steking ears Mandala by Kikunosuke Eel for Mandala

Gloves: Tableau vivant , Minos gloves by M4ri1yn Magic for Tableau Vivant

Belt: Mandala kookai belt silver by Kikunosuke Eel for Mandala

Pants: avid Byron: pants by Darwin Miszer for Avid

Feet: Hoorenbeek Allen by Ansor Hoorenbeek for Hoorenbeek

I Love the Way You Move

I like the waaaay you move
I like the waaaay you move (Whoo-o-o!)
I love the waaaay you move
I love the way, I love the way.

~ “I Like the Way You Move” by Outkast

This sexy song with punctuations of brass is a perfect piece for this outfit. Start with the sexy mesh shoes from Babette Ultsch. The pack comes with eight color choices, chosen via hud and a standard skin selector with a variety of nails. This is what I like about Babette’s work: she does sexy well. The shoes have a funky curvy platform and great shape and they seduce as most of her work does.

Then I have this sexy wrap dress from Poulet Koenkamp. This IS a template dress—I have seen it and shown it in various different ways—however Poulet makes it her own with her spectacular textures and HUD, allowing you to switch between them. I chose the warm reds and oranges of the button on the top row, third from the left. No one does textures like Poulet.

My skin is one of the great ones Aida Ewing is offering at Collabor88. I realized I had blogged this very skin before but with a red brow and in blonde, with Ikon Innovia’s hazel eyes, it looks completely different. My hair is one of Truth’s new ‘dos, blonde with waves and curls. I like how the curls vary as they would in real life and love the bangs.

I love the way, I love the way.

Hair: TRUTH HAIR Abra – LightBlondes03 by Truth Hawks for >TRUTH< *

Skin: Glam Affair – Margot – Europa 01 – Blonde by Aida Ewing for Glam Affair, available atCollabor88 *

Eyes: IKON Lucid Eyes – Hazel (M) by Ikon Innovia for IKON *

Dress:  :: PM :: Luisana Dress in Black Retro by Poulet Koenkamp for PurpleMoon Creations *

Hands: Slink Mesh Hands (av) Casual S Left by Siddean Munro for Slink

Skin Appliers: Glam Affair – Slink Hands Skin Appliers ( Europa) by Aida Ewing for Glam Affair

Nail Appliers: Izzie’s – Slink Metallic Nails Applier Huds (hands & feet) by Izzie Button for Izzie’s

Sandals:  *KL* Sandal Yvy Color Set01by Babette Ultsch for Kittie’s Lair *

Poses by Rogan Diesel for DieselWorks Animations *

The Default Setting

The capital-T Truth is about life BEFORE death. ~ David Foster Wallace, Commencement Address to Kenyon College, Class of 2005

Watch. It’s important.

I have spoken David Foster Wallace in this blog before. I absolutely love his work. His felicity with language, his ability to slide between formality and colloquialism, his earnest desire to examine himself and in so doing, life. He builds a compelling argument in his speech to the graduates that their education gives them the ability to change how they think about things, to move beyond the “default setting” of being self-centered. I find it a beautiful speech and I really want to share it.

My outfit has nothing whatsoever to do with the speech except the joy of this green matches my mood lately—spring is finally here. This joy comes courtesy of ValentinaEvangelista and her wonderfully homemade mesh dress with a bold polka dot print and contrasting belt. Valentina makes her own mesh and textures and has a unique look, which is funky, fun and sexy.

Peachymuah of has released a new face. There is a combo of the sort of Japanese/anime glossy pouty lip and a smooth but complex skin with lovely made up eyes. The skins are made to be “younger” and so offer a smaller breast option, which I like knowing. I do hear lots of people ask for smaller breast options in skins (believe it or not). My ponytails are Queue Marlowe’s whimsical new fluffy curls, which I have been hopping all over SL wearing, loving how cute they are.

If you’re automatically sure that you know what reality is, and you are operating on your default setting, then you, like me, probably won’t consider possibilities that aren’t annoying and miserable. But if you really learn how to pay attention, then you will know there are other options. It will actually be within your power to experience a crowded, hot, slow, consumer-hell type situation as not only meaningful, but sacred, on fire with the same force that made the stars: love, fellowship, the mystical oneness of all things deep down.

Not that that mystical stuff is necessarily true. The only thing that’s capital-T True is that you get to decide how you’re gonna try to see it. ~ David Foster Wallace, Commencement Address to Kenyon College, Class of 2005

Hair: bea cayenne by Queue Marlowe for Analog Dog *

Skin: Lily Olive bigger breasts by PeachieMuah for [Fresh Face] *

Eyes: IKON Ardent Eyes – Blossom (ML) by Ikon Innovia for IKON *

Dress: :V.e. Berries Dress Lime by ValentinaEvangelista for Valentina E. Couture, available at The Boutique*

Necklace: (Yummy) Fluorescent Lettuce Stone Necklace by Polyester Partridge for Yummy

Tote: !KKBB!! Deidre Shoulder Tote  – Green Flowers by Delia Linette for kisskissbangbang

Flats: MEOW – Hope Laced Flats by paperfairy for MEOW, available at The Chapter Four Event

Poses by Willa Whybrow for don’t freak out!

Changes

Ch-ch-ch-ch-Changes
(Turn and face the strain)
Ch-ch-Changes
Don’t tell them to grow up and out of it

~ “Changes” by David Bowie

In every part of life, there is bound to be change. SL has gone through some changes lately and will have more soon, and as always, some folks gripe, some ignore them and go on, and some embrace them as they can. For example, most people are glomming on to mesh when there is still a lot of life in system pieces and flexi. Mami Jewell has made this gorgeous dress, using flexi to her advantage by having a swirl of color around the skirt in beautiful, semi-translucent prims. Her system pieces still gleam with satiny perfection.

But then you have someone like Mirja Mills, who has totally embraced mesh, coming out now with just as much jewelry as hair, it seems. (I think Mirja just likes stringing all those beads together.) And BabyChampagne Sass is creating her own mesh as well for shoes and accessories. This pair of eclectic, couture shoes is her latest offering for L’Accessoire.

The big change everyone is talking about now is Truth Hawks decision to switch things around a bit. First he has gotten rid of all his “named’ colors and gone to a numbering system for his colors. So the hair I am wearing is now Red03 instead of something like “Cherry.” Additionally, he has new packaging that self launches when you wear it. I have heard a few complaints about the changes but I am guessing this makes things more streamlined for Truth, who has a huge inventory of hairs to deal with and produces them like a mad man. As long he doesn’t change the quality of the textures or mesh and never loses his sunny disposition, I am completely happy.

I said that time may change me
But I can’t trace time

Hair: TRUTH HAIR Gattina – Reds03 by Truth Hawks for >TRUTH< *

Skin: -Belleza- Ava Med TLC 1 r by Tricky Boucher for -Belleza-, at The Boutique *

Eyes: IKON Lucid Eyes – Gray-Green (ML) by Ikon Innovia for IKON *

Dress: -AZUL- Alicia /Amethyst by Mami Jewell for –AZUL- *

Necklace: .:EMO-tions:. * DAWN * necklace by Mirja Mills for .:EMO-tions:. *

Shoes: {{BSD Design studio}}Toiles de Jouy Disco green simple by BabyChampagne Sass for {{BSD Design studio}}, available at L’Accessoire *

Poses by Mavi Beck of Ma Vie *

My Soulful Dress

I’m gonna put on my dress
with that slit way up one side
with that tight thin waist
and that low neck line.
Lord, I’m going to the party,
gonna have some fun,
gonna shake and shout until the
morning come.

~ Sugar Pie DeSanto, Soulful Dress

I often find SL is the place I can party like I would in RL if I were younger, fitter, and more able to handle crazy dancing and loud music. And if I had legs this long I would probably wear a dress like this one from Ariadna Garrigus. With “a slit way up one side” and “that thin tight waist,” this is my soulful dress. Paired with sandals from Nuria Augapfel and Claire Messenger and an Asian-themed jewelry set from Dita Tran, I put a little Eastern spice into my look.

Of course, no dress would do without the right skin from top to bottom. Tricky Boucher offers the complete look in this skin being offered at the 100 Block. Not only do you get the tropical warm makeup but you get the detailed body including those luscious legs (and there is something to be said about the roundness of a woman’s thigh). A short cut from Chiaki Xue, who still rules the grid for short cuts like this, finishes my look, the one “I’m gonna shake everybody” with.

Lord, I’m going to the party.
Mmm, looking’ good.
I’m gonna shake everybody
Like I knew I would.
Don’t you girls go getting’ jealous
if I round up all your fellas.
I’ll be at my best when I put on my
Soulful dress

Hair: *Dura-Boys&Girls*42(Black) by Chiaki Xue for Dura *

Skin: -Belleza- Ava Med 100Block by Tricky Boucher for -Belleza-, available at 100 Block *

Eyes: IKON Lucid Eyes – Silver (ML) by Ikon Innovia for IKON *

Dress: ***ArisAris Igs65 Fans Dress by Ariadna Garrigus for ArisAris, available at The Garage Fair *

Jewelry: FuLo – “Wen Ling” Necklace and Earrings (carnelian) by Dita Tran for FuLo *

Nails: [PM]Pixel Mode – Diamond Edt. Mesh Nails : Regular by Tya Fallingbridge for Pixel Mode *

Shoes: N-core OMEGA “Black” by Nuria Augapfel and Claire Messenger for N-Core

Poses by Tutys for Tutys

Amplification

If you ask me what I came into this life to do, I will tell you: I came to live out loud. ~ Emile Zola

What does it mean to “live life out loud”? Sometimes it means enjoying the beauty of being bold and today I am relishing my bold look. Start with the chainmail dress from Ivy Burner, being offered at the Whore Couture monthly event. (I’m still wondering about the name of the event but getting used to it, I guess.) The mesh build of this dress is fine but even better is the work that Ivy has done with texturing and sexy straps wrapping around the torso and hips.

My shoes are Redgrave’s newest sexy leather-strapped sandals, wrapped around a dainty thin foot with nails. The brilliance of these shoes is the colors included with your purchase—you get over 10 colors you can put across the straps, the inner sole and the heel, which is a huge bargain. It’s ostensibly a fatpack for the cost of one pair of shoes.

I am wearing one of Aida Ewing’s new skins from Collabor88 with loud and lovely makeup. Orange and purple may have never worked anywhere else quite as well as they have on this skins. Aida makes it happen—a discord that makes a lovely noise. Mirja Mills’ new wild ‘do seals the deal here with crazy sexy locks and shape with lots of volume. I am amplified.

My optimism wears heavy boots and is loud. ~ Henry Rollins

Hair: .:EMO-tions:. * CARLA*/darkbrown by Mirja Mills for .:EMO-tions:. *

Skin: Glam Affair – Margot – India 01 – Dark brown by Aida Ewing for Glam Affair, available at Collabor88 *

Eyes: IKON Ardent Eyes – Chocolate (ML) by Ikon Innovia for IKON *

Dress: ~Sassy!~ Love is a Battlefield – black by Ivy Burner for ~Sassy!~, available at Whore Couture *

Collar: Leather Buckled Collar by Kya Eliot for Hexed (no longer available)

Nails: [PM]Pixel Mode – Diamond Edt. Mesh Nails : Long by Tya Fallingbridge for Pixel Mode *

Shoes: – Shoes Helena – 12colors / REDGRAVE by TeamRedgrave for Redgrave

Poses by Rogan Diesel for DieselWorks Animations *

Bedazzled

“If you can’t dazzle them with brilliance, baffle them with bull.” ~ W. C. Fields

Little bits of dazzle are in today’s look starting with this fab little minidress from SamanthaBJones. Made from a basic cowl neck, sleeveless mini, Samantha has bedazzled the dress with a sexy gold pattern, making the little black dress into a little black dazzler. Then LeeZu Baxter has applied sequins to tights to catch the light with a line of them going up the seam in back. Add sexy mistress boots from Circe Ishtari, and you have a look that dazzles.

My skin is also from Circe Ishtari, who is bringing her corner of Tokyo to SL with her brilliant collection of content. She does skins, of course, these beautiful Japanese girl looks with shapes to match, giving us an alternative look with delicate, well-drawn features. But she also does hair, clothing and shoes (as seen above). She’s working hard to make your SL more Tokyo.

I am so loving Kavar Cleanslate’s newest hair and his new handy, dandy HUD. I think the back of this hair is just fabulous, and that’s important because *I* have to look at it. I want to dazzle coming AND going.

“Still, what I want in my life is to be willing to be dazzled—to cast aside the weight of facts and maybe even to float a little above this difficult world.” ~ Mary Oliver

Hair: Exile::Desperately Wanting Natural Fusion 2 by Kavar Cleanslate for ::Exile::

Skin: Tokyo.Girl – Skin Jun – Fair by Circe Ishtari for Tokyo Girl *

Eyes: IKON Lucid Eyes – Machine (ML) by Ikon Innovia for IKON *

Dress: [LIV Glam] Boutique-Spring 2013-Mikaela Dress by SamanthaSJones forLIV-Glam *

Tights: Glitter Tights (Tattoo Layer) /silver by LeeZu! by LeeZu! by LeeZu Baxter for LeeZu! *

Nails: [PM]Pixel Mode – Diamond Edt. Mesh Nails : Regular by Tya Fallingbridge for Pixel Mode *

Ring: MG – Rings – Khaleesi’s Ring Of Power – Small – R by Maxi Gossamer for Maxi Gossamer *

Boots: Tokyo.Girl Stiletto Madame  . black by Circe Ishtari for Tokyo Girl *

Poses by Mavi Beck of Ma Vie *

A Little Sumthin’ Sumthin’

If it’s cool
We can do a little sumthin’ sumthin’

~ “Sumthin’ Sumthin’” by Maxwell

This song popped on the stream and I thought, well, I’m showin’ a little sumthin’ sumthin’ here. My first little sumthin’ is this great peplum mini from Ivy Burner. The thing with Ivy’s stuff is that it’s handmade mesh with great textures and fashion-forward silhouettes. Everything in Ivy’s collection fits like a t (on me) and runs the sexy spectrum from teasing to downright titillating.

I am wearing a new necklace from Maxi Gossamer, who entreats you always to enjoy her jewelry and have a wonderful day. I love how she has been going nuts with ideas in mesh, bringing RL jewelry designs to SL. She does’t just tinker and see what mesh will make her; she clearly goes in with something in mind. This necklace has a set of color change jewels—I chose reds bu you can have all black, black and pink, pink and turquoise, blues, etc.

My lovely shoes are bejeweled treasures from AvaGardner Kungler. I should have taken a closer photo but they are embroidered with peacock feathers with a jewel as the center. Ava always lifts her ideas from RL fashion, embellishing and embroidering with gorgeous patterns and textures.

I have a little sumthin’ blonde going on with Queue Marlowe’s latest sassy ‘do. Queue has been burning up the grid her style of fantastic hair. The textures in this hair are golden and luscious, which compliment Agony Helse’s newest skin perfectly. I love how the blush makes my face look so gorgeous and the eyes are beautifully shaped and made up. I will admit I put on a little red gloss from Mocksoup Graves to match the rest of the outfit (see the pops of red in the lips, jewelry, nails and shoe jewels).

Let me groove with you
So we can kick a little sumthin’ sumthin’ 

Hair: happy blonde by Queue Marlowe for Analog Dog *

Skin: Akeruka Manuela Nat MK2 by Agony Helse for Akeruka *

Makeup: [mock] Bella Vetro Gloss  [Lepore Red]  [Lip 2] by Mocksoup Graves for [mock cosmetics]

Eyes: IKON Lucid Eyes – Barley (ML) by Ikon Innovia for IKON *

Dress: ~Sassy!~ Milan leather dress  – gold/brown by Ivy Burner for ~Sassy!~ *

Necklace: MG – Necklace – Magdalena Cross – Short – GOLD by Maxi Gossamer for Maxi Gossamer *

Nails: [PM]Pixel Mode – Diamond Edt. Mesh Nails : Regular by Tya Fallingbridge for Pixel Mode *

Shoes: (Kunglers) Celine pump – Jeweled ED -  Brown by AvaGardner Kungler for Kunglers *

Poses by Rogan Diesel for DieselWorks Animations *